well that's me screwed for the year....

Prowl1984 · Post by **Prowl1984** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 12:45 pm

ok, just started in a new uni, a fresh start, a chance to get away from former demons.

so i find myself in swansea which, for the last three weeks has been going amazingly well. i even started dating someone!!!

but last night it all went wrong. went to go and see fozzy, great fun, had a laugh all was peachy. we then proceeded to the club "escape" but decided not to go in as the Queue was massive and operating on a one in, one out basis. so we decided to go home and have a few jay's. a few hours later the girl i'd been dating came up to see me after she'd been out, she was kinda drunk. we talked for a bit and then after a couple of hours she shagged my housemate (who already has a girlfriend most guys would kill for) in the room next to mine.

so it's all gone to hell in a handcart, i don't usually post my problems up on the internet but i needed to vent somehow, i've already written a song and i still feel lost.

Post by **Denyer** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 1:02 pm

Originally posted by Prowl1984
we talked for a bit and then after a couple of hours she shagged my housemate

Right... er, that's not the segue I was expecting in the space of a sentence.

She'd have to be a damn impressive person without a streak of malice to get forgiven that, personally. Was she ignoring you beforehand?

Sixswitch · Post by **Sixswitch** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 3:25 pm

I was at that concert. It was great. On the off chance, I was wearing a black t-shirt with a pic of a monkey and 'WANTED' written on it.

-Ss

Cliffjumper · Post by **Cliffjumper** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 3:28 pm

Be honest, dude, she does that to you, she's a bitch and not ****ing worth it, and I'd have serious "Not. ****ing. On" talks with your housemate too. If either of them were drunk, that's not an excuse in my book - I don't get confused and shag the wrong people when I'm drunk [I'm more likely to try to shag the right person, but in the wrong place, like a dancefloor or a mosque], so I don't see why other people do.

See if this helps you vent: http://www.arcadetown.com/catapult/playgame.asp

RANDOM: Escape still doing Face/Off on a Friday?

CounterPunch · Post by **CounterPunch** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 3:35 pm

Originally posted by Cliffjumper
Be honest, dude, she does that to you, she's a bitch and not ****ing worth it, and I'd have serious "Not. ****ing. On" talks with your housemate too. If either of them were drunk, that's not an excuse in my book - I don't get confused and shag the wrong people when I'm drunk [I'm more likely to try to shag the right person, but in the wrong place, like a dancefloor or a mosque], so I don't see why other people do.

See if this helps you vent: http://www.arcadetown.com/catapult/playgame.asp

RANDOM: Escape still doing Face/Off on a Friday?

Thats what I dont get, whenever Im drunk I dont have an urge to shag the wrong person, I just have urges to shag the right person even more.

Sixswitch · Post by **Sixswitch** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 3:40 pm

Originally posted by Cliffjumper
RANDOM: Escape still doing Face/Off on a Friday?

Yep, they sure are. I went in, but left after about 20 minutes because I was nackered. And I wasn't in the mood for the music.

-Ss

Cliffjumper · Post by **Cliffjumper** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 3:42 pm

And all the girls are 14.

Or they were in my day... or have they done another summer clampdown?

Prowl1984 · Post by **Prowl1984** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 4:37 pm

Well, me and my housemate had a chat, he seems really upset by it...to make up for it he gave me an early birthday present...issue one of dreamwave g1 in plastic casing...he's gonna stew for a bit longer though. denyer, i don't think she was ignoring me as we were talking for ages, but yeah, she my have lost interest as the night went on.

Sixswitch : fozzy was awsome!!!! did you see that short girl beating the crap out of her short boyfriend? midget fight!!! ahh it amused me so. enemy was epic

Cliffy: the 14 year old stage has passed..but there are many a pretentious so and so in there every friday, still enjoyable though.

Back to dilemma, she's coming round for a chat a bit later as long as i dont shout at her...well thts gonna be difficult...

Zisteau · Post by **Zisteau** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 4:58 pm

Originally posted by Prowl1984
Well, me and my housemate had a chat, he seems really upset by it...to make up for it he gave me an early birthday present...issue one of dreamwave g1 in plastic casing...he's gonna stew for a bit longer though.

So...can I shag your girl if I get you a comic? To be blunt, that doesn't seem like something that would remedy the situation.

Sociopathic Autobot · Post by **Sociopathic Autobot** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 5:00 pm

I want to know how this leaves you screwed for the year. I have read nothing that should leave you absolutely screwed for the next two-and-a-half months.

You're at a university, those things seem to be teeming with girls. I also get the feeling you have only been dating this girl for a short time. Something like this shouldn't leave you screwed for the year. Maybe a weekend, but the rest of the year. That's a tad over-dramatic, that is something I would've said two years ago.

You found out she was a cheap slut early on. That's good, just be happy you got away from that and move on.

Halfshell · Post by **Halfshell** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 5:02 pm

Originally posted by Prowl1984
issue one of dreamwave g1 in plastic casing

Water proof
Fire proof
Rip proof

Talk about adding insult to ****ing injury.

RID Scourge · Post by **RID Scourge** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 5:34 pm

Hmmm . . . sounds like your housemate knows it was wrong and is trying to make things right. I've heard of the type. They **** on their friends because they just don't think until they've done whatever it is that was wrong. Probably wouldn't trust him from now on. If you can get a new place, go for it. Well, if there's any justice, his girl will want to get with you when he mentions what he's done.

The girl? I wouldn't have much to do with her from now on. Asking you not to shout at her? WTF is she? Stupid? You have every right to shout at her, and if she gave a toss, she'd not only understand it, but she'd be willing to take it. Then again, if she gave a toss she wouldn't have done that in the first place. Just move on. There's plenty of other girls, who will treat you right.

-Predaking- · Post by **-Predaking-** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 7:10 pm

Never take back a girl who cheated on you. I dumped a girl I was seeing for 3 years the instant she was caught necking with someone at a club the very day and I never took her back. There is plenty of girls at the Uni you'll find someone else I am sure.

BTW try to change your room ASAP and get away from that guy who slept with your girl then act sorry about it. You shouldnt trust him ever again.

Prowl1984 · Post by **Prowl1984** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 7:56 pm

i talked to her a couple of hours ago, she said she was sorry and exceedingly drunk. i hate that excuse. either way im gonna try and cut loose, we werent going out but she was clear on the feelings i had for her, as was my housemate. gonna see how the next few weeks pan out before thinking about moving out, it was the first thing that i thought about doing this morning though.

So...can I shag your girl if I get you a comic? To be blunt, that doesn't seem like something that would remedy the situation.

i read you Z, i told him it wasnt gonna fix things...i mean im gonna take the comic anyway, but i told him i couldnt be bought off and he wasnt going to get off lightly.

I want to know how this leaves you screwed for the year. I have read nothing that should leave you absolutely screwed for the next two-and-a-half months.

i meant that i've got to live with this guy, see him everyday, and be reminded of what happened everytime i see him. it's a four bedroom house so there's no getting away

"insert name here" · Post by **"insert name here"** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 8:17 pm

sounds harsh, i'd never be able to trust someone who'd cheated on me ever again, even if they claimed that it was only coz they were drunk.

Post by **Denyer** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 9:32 pm

Originally posted by RID Scourge
You have every right to shout at her

Not worth it. People rarely are; may as well take the high road.

Originally posted by RID Scourge
either way im gonna try and cut loose, we werent going out but she was clear on the feelings i had for her, as was my housemate.

Right, so he's an insensitive bastard but possibly didn't think there was anything to break up.

The same possibly goes for her, except you were aiming to go out with her, whereas you weren't aiming to go out with your housemate. It'd probably be a bad idea to aim for a relationship with her unless you're prepared for her disappearing at some point when she feels like it.

-Predaking- · Post by **-Predaking-** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 10:25 pm

Just curious... since you all live in the same house how come you didn't know of the hankie-pankie that was going on the next room? How did you find out?

the_escaflowne_2k · Post by **the_escaflowne_2k** » Sat Oct 15, 2005 11:18 pm

You have my comiserations laddy, if its any consolation everyone goes through girl trouble at some point ( or they're a lucky **** if they dont), going through a spot of it myself at the mo.

Prowl1984 · Post by **Prowl1984** » Sun Oct 16, 2005 12:03 am

Originally posted by -Predaking-
Just curious... since you all live in the same house how come you didn't know of the hankie-pankie that was going on the next room? How did you find out?

room next to mine....i heard them going at it...as you can imagine it was pretty distressing

Sociopathic Autobot · Sun Oct 16, 2005 12:27 am

Originally posted by Prowl1984
room next to mine....i heard them going at it...as you can imagine it was pretty distressing

How long had you two been dating and was it only dating?