This happened on my hall a few weeks ago.
This happened on my hall a few weeks ago.
No ****.
http://www.collegehumor.com/?image_id=2 ... ewest&pg=1
The pic was taken in one of my friend's room.
http://www.collegehumor.com/?image_id=2 ... ewest&pg=1
The pic was taken in one of my friend's room.
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One word sums that picture up: DAYUMMMMM!
If I were to mention those undies (or even the belt thing for that matter.. err..especially that) to a certain someone in my life, I would get something like "I am not a tramp!" and a severe bollocking for even suggesting it.
You are very very very lucky.Originally posted by Sir Auros
Since recounting that story to a certain someone in my life, she's invested in panties like those...and they look damn good on her
If I were to mention those undies (or even the belt thing for that matter.. err..especially that) to a certain someone in my life, I would get something like "I am not a tramp!" and a severe bollocking for even suggesting it.
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Originally posted by Jonin
If I were to mention those undies (or even the belt thing for that matter.. err..especially that) to a certain someone in my life, I would get something like "I am not a tramp!" and a severe bollocking for even suggesting it.
And after posting the above he *still* insisted on starting up a conversation with me about similar outfits...despite knowing that I don't appreciate being viewed as some form of sex object and that suggesting I get similar attire would get him into serious trouble with me!
Someone show me the logic in this behaviour please?
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Originally posted by ~*ShadowDancer*~
And after posting the above he *still* insisted on starting up a conversation with me about similar outfits...despite knowing that I don't appreciate being viewed as some form of sex object and that suggesting I get similar attire would get him into serious trouble with me!
Someone show me the logic in this behaviour please?
If I may step in? I wouldn't take it offensively or think that his motivation would only be to see you as a sexual object. It's ok to dress up and act trampy or fulfill each other's little fantasies (even if they are sometimes lame) as long as you both know you respect each other. I think Jonin respects you enough to be able to see you in something kinky but not see you purely as a sexual object. Certainly, it is a sexual thing, but it doesn't mean he respects you less or sees you differently.
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Originally posted by Civ
I'm assuming here that Jonin and Shadowdancer are a couple?
You would assume correctly Civ. Couldn't you tell?
Strafe: I've said that before....
Auros: Exactly. My reasoning to her was that she should be able to look nice and have nice clothes not only during the day, but in the evening as well.
I mean, lingerie that looks good on her, not necessarily anything overtly risque at all. Ah well.
I've never quite understood this attitude.Originally posted by ~*ShadowDancer*~
I don't appreciate being viewed as some form of sex object
It's both unfair and offensive to treat someone you don't know / aren't in a relationship with as a sex object. But if you don't regard a partner as one, I figure something may be missing.
I'm happy to be the sex object of someone I love. It doesn't imply that they cease treating me with the respect they would anyone else, it's just an acknowledgement that I make them horny. Which I'm both happy to do and happy that I do. Plus, getting someone else off gets me off, if it's to be looked at in a purely mercenary light...
Originally posted by Denyer
I'm happy to be the sex object of someone I love. It doesn't imply that they cease treating me with the respect they would anyone else, it's just an acknowledgement that I make them horny. Which I'm both happy to do and happy that I do. Plus, getting someone else off gets me off, if it's to be looked at in a purely mercenary light...
The man has it down pat.