Tread gently, Shrapnel.
I hope for your sake you are not forced to choose, because one way or another you'd be hurting yourself. If you can help resolve the issue, you're in good. If you don't think you can, try to stay out of it unless you have no choice.
R.
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Thanks to Skycat for the new sig pic!
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Pain heals, chicks dig scars, but glory is forever.
Transformers TNG--The ultimate in TF gaming.
Do not talk smack to the dragon.--Ancient Gibsonian proverb
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Be sure to stop by the basement run by torture and pain experts RCOSD and Redstreak, the winners of the 2001 Archiver Alliance of the year!